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Narcissism II, Moron Boogaloo

I had a very interesting exchange with a viewer. Well, she wasn’t a “viewer,” she was a narcissist who accidentally came across one of my videos. She responded to an upload in January with a very self-entitled comment that still astounds. [Read the original article here]

I wrote a blog entry about it highlighting for my readers how unbelievably narcissistic this person was. I did so to educate. If I knew her real name I wouldn’t have reproduced it anyway as my goal is to instruct, but my post then led her to return to MDEF to post an even more bizarre comment! This has to be read to be believed–see below.


On Saturday, I was contacted on Facebook by a beautiful, fit girl who must have been one of her friends. Her comment was not coherent and I still have not had any of my queries answered concerning exactly what she was referring to. Apparently though, for 3 months the original person has been running around complaining to anyone who will listen about how she was victimized by my viewers who probably made no more than a passing reference to her on a video. She claimed they emailed her but this act is no longer possible on youtube.

In reading this comment, along with her friend’s response, I have a few questions. How is it that this individual’s friends don’t recognize that there is something very wrong with her?

Wouldn’t the first thing you would say to one of your friends is “why are you perseverating over a comment someone made to you on the internet three months ago when the person doesn’t a.know you or b.even know your name?”

If her “friends” where actually friends they would exert a positive influence over her behavior and suggest that she should gain some control over her disturbing obsessions.

I think this is why so many women don’t go into politics. They cannot take the heat. They want to speak, share, and lecture but are horrified when others fail to clap. This appears to be a widespread societal phenomenon and a major reason why so many of them approve of internet censorship.


Read this comment and be amazed. One thousand words of mumbo-jumbo and disturbance.

Since this blog entry was published by your website, I have received some disrespectful and harassing messages from some people who visited this website reading what you wrote about me. It has been an unpleasant experience. I only wrote one comment on Mr. Chapins YouTube video just talking about how I felt about some things and what I’ve gone through life experience wise. And I thought that comment would just stay on YouTube and that the discussion would stay on YouTube.

Instead I receive some harassing private e-mails and find out that a blog entry was written about me & my post on one video on YouTube. I have NEVER had anyone write a blog entry about me. In one of your blog entries, you write a phrase that men don’t gossip.

Well, I personally feel this blog entry was gossiping about me. I never gave permission for people to write blog entries about me. Most YouTubers respect other YouTubers and don’t write blogs about them. I’m really upset that you used my sign-on name. I never gave permission for you to publish my sign-on name. Now, because I’ve received some harassing e-mails because of the one post I wrote on that video and because of this blog entry, I’m now scared to speak on certain subject. I’m NEVER going to post on Mr. Chapin’s YouTube videos again. [THANK YOU!]

I thought YouTube was a place where people can freely speak their minds on things. I don’t think many YouTubers would be pleased if they were made into blog subjects. In the past, when I used to blog, I never used people’s sign-on names or real names. I personally feel that you crossed some boundaries by using my sign-on name in the blog entry. I’m getting some harassment because you used my name in your blog entry.

Out of respect for other human beings, it would be good if you didn’t use people’s sign-on names and real names if they never gave you permission or asked for harassment in private messages from people. I was shocked that you wrote a blog entry about me & used my sign-on name. It’s gotten bad to the point that I had to delete my post. And I’m considering whether I should keep my sign-on name or not. That’s really not fair since I’ve used my sign-on name since March 2nd, 2012.

I don’t think you realize that by using people’s sign-on names or real names without their permission leads to them being harassed privately through private messages. It’s kind of disrespectful what you did. I didn’t deserve to be harassed this way. I feel like I’m owed an apology.

[Does this new blog meet your expectations?]

And I would appreciate it if you deleted my sign-on name on this blog entry and also the people who were commenting about me in replies – they used my name as well. I shouldn’t have to change my username because I’m scared of private messages I’m getting from some people who read you blog. Next time, when you write about people on YouTube – don’t use their sign-on name or real name.

That’s showing great disrespect for other people. And the fact that you wrote a blog about me just because I wrote a post that differs from your views – just because people have opinions different than yours – doesn’t mean it’s okay for you to write blog entries using their names and making examples of each person who disagrees with you. I didn’t deserve the harassing e-mails.

I didn’t deserve my sign-on name being used in this blog entry. I would REALLY appreciate it if you deleted any reference to my sign-on name in this entire blog entry and in the responses. It’s humiliating and embarrassing enough that you wrote a blog entry about me.

Out of any decency and respect – I would appreciate it if you deleted this blog entry or at the very least – deleted my username in the blog entry and responses. [Nein! Frau Obersturmbannfeuher!]

I didn’t deserve the harassment I’ve been getting in private messages due to you publishing a blog entry without permission and my knowledge. I have never done that to other YouTubers. And when I did blog, I never used their real names or sign-on names. I’m a decent human being, and I didn’t deserve some of the disrespectful private messages I’ve been getting. And I think it’s really disrespectful that you gossiped about me.

At least when I had disagreements, I said it directly on his video page, and I didn’t write some blog about him or trigger people to write private messages to him. It’s not cool that when people Google my sign-on name, [I deleted this for you, happy now?], that they see your blog and the disrespectful and negative stuff you wrote about me.

I don’t blog about other people using their sign-on names or real names. That’s not showing class, respect, or thoughtfulness. You have the right to state and express your opinions, but you can do it in a better way, where the subject of your blog entries aren’t gossipped about and where they are not being harassed with disrespectful private messages.

Please delete any reference to my sign-on name in this blog entry and responses from your readers. I have deleted my post. I will NEVER post on any of his videos again. I only posted once. And now, I’m traumatized because I feel that anyone who has different opinions than him or his supporters will be made an example of and a subject for a blog entry.

I personally don’t think it’s cool or respectful for you to be talking about YouTubers behind their back and blogging about them without their knowledge and permission. Thanks for giving me headaches that I didn’t deserve. Please do something to correct this problem. Thanks. And out of respect for me, please don’t publish my comment or delete my comment after you’re read it and have done something to help the situation I’m in now. There’s no private e-mail link. I would’ve preferred a private e-mail link. Thanks

I have no advice for this individual and have no idea as to how she can be improved.

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